23 Blog(9):Chapter Eight: Her Name Once in Lights(The End)

She didn’t leave behind children. No grand estate. No signed autobiography on a dusty library shelf.
What Lily Flexmore left behind was far more fragile, and far more miraculous.
She left behind echoes.
Echoes in the memory of a girl who remembered a photograph on a mantelpiece.
Echoes in the pages of forgotten newspapers, in the playbills of theatres now turned into shopping centres.
Echoes in the bones of football pitches, where girls still run, hair flying, unafraid to take up space.
And most of all, she left behind a question.
How could someone who bent herself so beautifully for the world simply disappear?
It was a question that wouldn’t let go of me. Not because I knew her well—not at first. But because I recognised the spaces she had moved through. The feeling of being two people, sometimes three. Of learning to perform before learning to speak. Of needing to hide just to be seen.
I could see her in the shadows of things.
The crease in a music hall curtain.
The laces on an old leather football boot.
The gleam of laughter in a black-and-white photo.
She’d been there all along.
We just hadn’t looked hard enough.
I stood by her grave once. Just once.
The sky was soft that day, as if it, too, had gone quiet to listen. The grass was tidy. The stone still leaned slightly. But now it had flowers. Words. Visitors.
Someone had left a theatre ticket, laminated and wrapped in ribbon.
Another left a football badge.
I added a single feather.
And then I spoke out loud to the stone, hoping—perhaps foolishly—that somewhere in the quiet, she was listening.
“You were never forgotten,” I said. “Just waiting.”
I imagine her now—not in a grave, but on a stage.
She’s standing centre spotlight, one foot elegantly arched behind her ear, grinning at a room full of faces.
The orchestra cues. The crowd hushes.
And then—bravely, gloriously—she begins again.
She was Ellen.
She was Ruth.
She was Lily.
She was more than any one name could contain.
But now—now that we know her—
Her name is in lights once more.
Author’s Note:
The narrator of this story—the “I”—is a fictional voice. She does not exist as a single real person, but represents the many researchers, descendants, historians, and admirers whose curiosity and dedication have brought Lily Flexmore’s story back into the light.
The events, people, and historical facts in Lily’s story are entirely true. Her life as Ellen Mary Anne Dunn, as footballer “Ruth Coupland”, and as the music hall performer “Lily Flexmore” are all part of the historical record.
This project is dedicated with heartfelt thanks to all those who helped preserve her memory—especially Karen Wall and Liam Mooney, whose research, passion, and generosity have been invaluable.
May God bless you both.
(The End)